新加坡知名风水大师李九燚:如何运用易经来化解小人,天山遁?
Renowned Feng Shui Master Li Jiuyi from Singapore: How to use the Book of Changes to resolve villains and Tian Shan Dun?
小人是无处不在的,因为只要有人的地方就有斗争。站在周易的角度,小人与君子是对立的。
Small people are everywhere, because wherever there are people, there is struggle. From the perspective of the Book of Changes, villains and gentlemen are in opposition.
小人不是绝对,是相对,你眼中小人可能是别人眼里的君子,你认为的君子又可能是别人眼里的小人。
A villain is not absolute, it is relative. In your eyes, a villain may be a gentleman in the eyes of others, and in your eyes, a gentleman may be a villain in the eyes of others.
站在微观来讲,小人可能是与你观点不同的人。站在宏观来讲,小人就是卑鄙而又下贱再加一点无知的人。
From a micro perspective, a villain may be someone with a different perspective than you. From a macro perspective, a villain is a despicable and lowly person with a little bit of ignorance.
既然小人无处不在,那我们就要有正确的化解方法。我们来看一下周易里的天山遁卦。
Since villains are everywhere, we need to have the right way to resolve them. Let's take a look at the Tian Shan Dun Gua in the Book of Changes.
天山遁卦上卦为乾,下卦为山,乾为天,天下有山,是天高山远之意。象曰:天下有山,遁。君子以远小人,不恶而严。
The Tian Shan Dun hexagram states that the upper hexagram represents Qian, the lower hexagram represents Shan, and Qian represents Tian. There are mountains in the world, which means that the sky is high and the mountains are far away. Xiang said: There are mountains in the world, escape. A gentleman is far from a petty person, not evil but strict.
意思就是说,我们不应该以恶报恶的方法来去对付小人,应该采取严厉的态度表明立场而远避,待机再举。
The meaning is that we should not use the method of repaying evil for evil to deal with petty people. We should adopt a strict attitude to express our stance and avoid it, waiting for further action.
小人伤害你,你不能对他笑。你一对他笑,他就得寸进尺,变本加厉,不是对你就是对别人。所以就要不恶而严!
You can't smile at someone who hurts you. As soon as you smile at him, he takes a step forward and intensifies, either towards you or others. So we must be strict with no evil!
同时,我们也要远离小人。因为在山高天远,阴长阳消之时小人得势,君子就要暂时退避一下,这就是周易的智慧。
At the same time, we should also stay away from petty people. Because at a time when the mountains are high and the sky is far away, when the yin and yang are long and the villain is in power, the gentleman needs to temporarily retreat. This is the wisdom of the Book of Changes.
可能会有人说,这个社会君子那有地方退,难道不用吃饭了吗?
Some people may say that in this society, gentlemen have a place to retreat. Don't you need to eat anymore?
退,是一门学问,有多种表现形式,有明的,有暗的。有直接的,有间接的,这个得靠自己根据实际环境而选择方案。
Retreat is a discipline that has multiple forms of expression, both clear and dark. There are direct and indirect options, and it is up to oneself to choose a solution based on the actual environment.
不管是一间公司,还是一个国家,君子如果都退了,那也就危了。
Whether it's a company or a country, if a gentleman resigns, it's also in danger.
试想一间公司有水平的人都辞职,剩下一班只会拍马尼的饭桶,结局可想而知,这就是典形的阴长阳消。
Imagine a company where talented people all resign, leaving only a group of people who know how to make a living. The outcome is predictable, and this is the classic form of Yin Chang Yang Xiao.
有些老板很搞笑的,在公司内不重视人才,只喜欢听人拍马屁。
Some bosses are very funny, they don't value talent in the company and only like to listen to people flattering.
人才跑光了,他就整天骂骂咧咧说别人反骨,公司怎样怎样培养了他,好象人家没帮他干过活似的。
When he ran out of talent, he would constantly curse and talk about how others turned against him, how the company trained him, as if they had never helped him with any work.
这是一些人的认识问题,没办法的。目前社会上很多这类人,我文章后台也很多,观点不同就整天跑来留言骂骂咧咧。
This is a cognitive problem for some people, there is no way. At present, there are many people of this kind in society, and I also have many articles in the background. With different opinions, I always leave messages and curse.
对于这种货色我的对应方法就是直接拉入黑名单,我不会跟他吵,也不想浪费这些时间与精力。
My corresponding method for this type of product is to directly blacklist it. I won't argue with it, nor do I want to waste this time and energy.
因为跟这类人争吵是没有意义的,你永远改变不了他。双方的学识见识认知不同,吵不出结果的。最好就用前面天山遁卦的方式,远离小人,亲近君子。
Because arguing with such people is meaningless, you can never change them. Both sides have different knowledge and cognition, and there is no outcome to the argument. It's best to use the method of Tian Shan Dun Gua in the previous section, stay away from petty people, and get close to gentlemen.